Why is it so hard for us to talk about sex, even with the people we have it with?

Sex is the topic couples are least likely to talk about – ranking even below death and finances. Why is it so challenging? Understanding this can help us be more compassionate with ourselves and partners… opening us up to easy, joyful communication, and ever-increasing pleasure!

C lear communication is also essential to ensure consent and respect for the wishes of everyone involved.

In this workshop adult sex educator and coach Ruth Ramsay will explain why sex is so hard to communicate about, and give you strategies to open up those conversations.

She will draw on communication strategies such as NVC (Non Violent Communication), protcols from the kink world, case studies from experience of her clients, and more.

Ruth will give particular focus to:

• Why communicating is vitally important
• Communication with play partners vs in long term relationships
• Sharing fantasies – whether to, when and how
• Opening up relationships
• What to do when it goes wrong

Have a pen and paper to hand for the self-coaching questions, and begin writing your own action plan for easier communication.

Feel inspired and excited to communicate and connect!

A recording will be shared after the event.

About Ruth Ramsay:

Ruth Ramsay (she/her) is an adult sex educator and coach with a background as a striptease artist and erotic activist. Her dancing and campaigning took her from kink dungeons and Times Square penthouse parties, to care homes and the Houses Of Parliament. She now combines a coaching diploma with her lived experience, supporting coaching clients to deeply understand who they are sexually, what they need, and how to communicate this to partners. Her TEDx talk 'Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes' has almost one million views and she is regularly quoted in the press as a sex expert. Her life’s mission is the recognition of sexual energy as a force for good.

P LEASE NOTE:

• The presentation will be hosted in Zoom and will last 75-90 minutes. Eventbrite will send you details of how to join via the Eventbrite event page. If you don’t see the email please check your spam folders. You will need to log in to Eventbrite to access the event
• The recording will be available to view on Vimeo for seven days after the event
• Questions can be submitted via the Zoom Q&A box during the webinar. Ruth does not guarantee to answer all questions
• All viewers must be minimum 18 years old